June 2, 2017
Do I need a Prenup and do they work?
In the days leading up to a wedding there are fewer statements less romantic that asking your betrothed to take some independent legal advice about a prenup.
No one wants to think about separating before they are married, but the reality is relationships do break down and pre-nuptial agreements (or prenups) are increasingly becoming a feature of modern marriages and civil partnerships.
It can be tempting to concentrate on the dress and the party, but marriage is a contract and a contract that confers significant rights on your intended. If a marriage or civil partnership does breakdown, then those without a prenup run the risk of years of protracted litigation over the marital estate. If you have significant assets before you marry, or perhaps you want to ensure existing children are looked after no matter what, then a prenup might be worth considering.
No one wants to think about separating before they are married, but the reality is relationships do break down and pre-nuptial agreements (or prenups) are increasingly becoming a feature of modern marriages and civil partnerships.
It can be tempting to concentrate on the dress and the party, but marriage is a contract and a contract that confers significant rights on your intended. If a marriage or civil partnership does breakdown, then those without a prenup run the risk of years of protracted litigation over the marital estate. If you have significant assets before you marry, or perhaps you want to ensure existing children are looked after no matter what, then a prenup might be worth considering.
In the days leading up to a wedding there are fewer statements less romantic that asking your betrothed to take some independent legal advice about a prenup. No one wants to think about separating before they are married, but the reality is relationships do break down and pre-nuptial agreements (or prenups) are increasingly becoming a feature of modern marriages and civil partnerships.
It can be tempting to concentrate on the dress and the party, but marriage is a contract and a contract that confers significant rights on your intended. If a marriage or civil partnership does breakdown, then those without a prenup run the risk of years of protracted litigation over the marital estate. If you have significant assets before you marry, or perhaps you want to ensure existing children are looked after no matter what, then a prenup might be worth considering.
A prenup allows couples to have a degree of self-regulation over their affairs and set out from the outset what will happen if they separate. It isn’t about trying to make sure your new spouse doesn’t get anything. On the contrary, it must be fair from the outset to be valid, and it allows parties to decide on what is fair for themselves.
Are Prenups legal in England and Wales?
Historically prenups have not been recognised in the UK, but in 2010 the landscape changed. Although prenups are not legally binding the case of Radmacher v Granatino set the precedent that prenups should be upheld if they are not unfair.
In 2014 the Law Commission recommended that prenups should be legally binding. That hasn’t happened yet, but the smart money is on that being a matter of time. Where does that leave us today?
As long as certain condition are met, then the current view is that prenups should be upheld. If no prenup is in place, then the starting point is a 50/50 split of assets. With that in mind, taking some legal advice before you get married might save a lot of heartache in the future.
What conditions need to be met for a Prenup to be fair?
What you should consider:
- Both parties need to speak to a solicitor. Your prenup should be drawn up by a solicitor and both parties should have had an opportunity to take independent legal advice. Most solicitors are now willing to offer a fixed fee to draft a prenup so costs don’t unnecessarily escalate.
- The prenup should be signed at least 21 days before the wedding. The scene lifted from the movies with the bride signing in the back of the car is likely to result in an invalid prenup.
- There needs to be full and frank disclosure of assets – to understand that what you are signing is fair you need to understand the true financial picture. If you don’t feel comfortable disclosing the true financial picture to your intended, then the prenup you propose might not be valid.
- Both solicitors acting for the parties should confirm that the agreement was entered freely and without duress.
- The agreement should be fair and realistic. A prenup is not a way of ringfencing all your assets and leaving your spouse with nothing if you divorce. If you take the step to get married the courts will expect that there will be some sharing of assets. A prenup is about setting out what the parties agree is fair and that will vary from case to case.
- There should be consideration given to reviewing the agreement, particularly if children are born. What might be viewed as fair could change over time.
The prenup conversation might be a tricky one, but it is a lot easier agreeing what is fair while you are still enjoying the best of times, rather than when you are in the worst of times.
And the very best result after drafting a prenup? When they never have to be used.
Legal Advice
It is not only advisable to take legal advice when preparing a prenup, but it is necessary for both people to obtain independent legal advice on the fairness of the agreement if you want it to stand up in an English Court.
If you would like to speak confidentially to our team of family lawyers you can call 020 7993 2936 to schedule an appointment or make a Contact Request here.
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At Allard Bailey, we understand that family conflicts or separations can be challenging and emotional times, especially when children are involved. That is why we have created this guide to provide valuable insights into the process of applying for a Child Arrangements Order in a clear and comprehensible manner.
As a fundamental legal instrument in Family Law, the Child Arrangements Order details visitation schedules and custody arrangements, prioritising the child's welfare in situations where parental or guardian agreement is lacking. By understanding this process, parents and guardians can make informed decisions that facilitate the amicable resolution of familial conflicts.
In the following sections, we will delve into the details of the process, including the role of the court, and provide expert guidance to navigate the procedure smoothly.
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In the following sections, we will delve into the details of the process, including the role of the court, and provide expert guidance to navigate the procedure smoothly.
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What if my spouse refuses to accept the divorce?
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Eligibility for divorce
You can get divorced in England or Wales if:
- you have been married for over a year;
- your relationship has permanently broken down; and
- your marriage is legally recognised in the UK.
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Although it is not a legal requirement to separate your finances when you divorce, it is advisable to do so.
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The Court will look for evidence that the financial settlement is fair and meets both of your needs without putting one person under undue pressure or hardship.
As the concepts of fairness and hardship are subjective, it can be difficult to reach an agreement that you both consider to meet these criteria. In this situation, you can request that the Court makes the decision about how to separate your marital finances for you.
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Should we go to Court or Arbitration to settle our Divorce?
When your relationship breaks down there is a lot to decide and it can be difficult to agree on everything.
If you have different views on what is fair, disputes about finances, property and children can continue for months or even years.
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As your children grow, both your circumstances and their circumstances will change. It may be necessary to vary the amount of child maintenance paid each month.
The route to change child maintenance payments depends on whether you are making Court-ordered payments or whether your child maintenance is dealt with by the Child Maintenance Service (CMS).
In this blog we focus on the options available to a paying parent who needs to reduce child maintenance payments. However, the same principles of process apply to a receiving parent who wishes to increase payments.
It is important to remember that the repercussions of reducing or stopping payments without agreement are serious and can have a long term effect on your financial situation. It is therefore advisable to take advice from a specialist at the earliest opportunity.
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Break the Bias When Parents Separate
There have been huge changes in attitudes towards women, family and relationships; but there is still a clear stereotype in parenting roles.
Women generally take the lead in caring for children and this can leave them in a vulnerable situation if their relationship ends.
We highlight this issue for married and unmarried mothers, discussing how Prenuptial Agreements and Cohabitation Contracts can #BreakTheBias when parents separate.
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Women generally take the lead in caring for children and this can leave them in a vulnerable situation if their relationship ends.
We highlight this issue for married and unmarried mothers, discussing how Prenuptial Agreements and Cohabitation Contracts can #BreakTheBias when parents separate.
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As one of the firms campaigning for no-fault divorce, we are pleased that it will soon be here, but what does it really mean for couples who are divorcing? How are divorce laws changing? Should you wait for the new divorce laws?
Designed to reduce conflict in divorce proceedings, No-Fault Divorce will remove the need to appoint blame for the breakdown of a marriage or civil partnership and allow couples to make a joint divorce application.
This is a significant change to family law in England and Wales, which has traditionally required one spouse to divorce the other, usually on the grounds that their actions caused the relationship to fail.
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Mediation is the most popular form of Alternative Dispute Resolution and has much positive feedback.
It is a practice intended to help people in dispute reach agreement on their own - so that you do not need to involve the Courts.
The idea is that you discuss the situation directly with the other person and try to reach an agreement between you. However, you are able to take independent legal advice at any stage of mediation and it is possible for a solicitor and / or other professionals to attend mediation with you.
All mediation is overseen by a trained and impartial third person, known as the mediator.
It is a practice intended to help people in dispute reach agreement on their own - so that you do not need to involve the Courts.
The idea is that you discuss the situation directly with the other person and try to reach an agreement between you. However, you are able to take independent legal advice at any stage of mediation and it is possible for a solicitor and / or other professionals to attend mediation with you.
All mediation is overseen by a trained and impartial third person, known as the mediator.
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Using a Child Contact Centre
It is usually better for children to maintain contact with both of their parents after separation, but this can be difficult for many reasons.
It is common for a parent to leave the family home without a fixed address, meaning they do not have anywhere appropriate to take their child.
There will sometimes be extreme circumstances that led to the separation, or it may simply be that the parents’ emotions are too raw and they cannot face seeing each other.
This can be difficult for children who feel caught in the middle.
It is common for a parent to leave the family home without a fixed address, meaning they do not have anywhere appropriate to take their child.
There will sometimes be extreme circumstances that led to the separation, or it may simply be that the parents’ emotions are too raw and they cannot face seeing each other.
This can be difficult for children who feel caught in the middle.
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Could a Co-Parenting App help you Stay Child-Focused?
Navigating arrangements for children and ensuring their lives remain as unaffected as possible after separation can be difficult; particularly in the early stages when you may feel like your life has been turned upside down and you are still negotiating aspects of your settlement.
Apps can provide a focused method of communication which is solely about the children.
Many parents find that apps help them keep on top of their children’s lives and minimise conflict. If communication between parents is breaking down in other settings, such as face to face or by WhatsApp, a co-parenting app can ensure there is always an open channel of communication to make arrangements for your children.
Apps can provide a focused method of communication which is solely about the children.
Many parents find that apps help them keep on top of their children’s lives and minimise conflict. If communication between parents is breaking down in other settings, such as face to face or by WhatsApp, a co-parenting app can ensure there is always an open channel of communication to make arrangements for your children.
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Could Child Inclusive Mediation Help You Agree Child Arrangements?
It is common for separating parents who have their child’s best interests at heart to have different views on what that means.
It is a time of great change and emotion for everyone and it can be difficult to set that aside and reach an agreement between you.
Court proceedings are stressful for all concerned and there is significant delay in the system, but there are alternatives.
We highlight Child Inclusive Mediation as an alternative means of resolving children matters, which can help you lay the foundations for a strong co-parenting relationship moving forward.
It is a time of great change and emotion for everyone and it can be difficult to set that aside and reach an agreement between you.
Court proceedings are stressful for all concerned and there is significant delay in the system, but there are alternatives.
We highlight Child Inclusive Mediation as an alternative means of resolving children matters, which can help you lay the foundations for a strong co-parenting relationship moving forward.
INSIGHT|December 2, 2021
Practical Ideas to Continue Contact with your Child
When parents separate, it is common for children to live with one parent more of the time. Whichever parent they are with, it is natural for them to miss the other.
What can parents do to make it easier for children and show that they are still valued by both?
First remember there are many types of contact and if your child misses you, there is rarely a good reason that contact should be limited to the days they see you.
In the age of telephones and video calls, children should be able to speak to both of their parents every day if they want to. You can also write, email and communicate on social media if it is appropriate for your child.
What can parents do to make it easier for children and show that they are still valued by both?
First remember there are many types of contact and if your child misses you, there is rarely a good reason that contact should be limited to the days they see you.
In the age of telephones and video calls, children should be able to speak to both of their parents every day if they want to. You can also write, email and communicate on social media if it is appropriate for your child.
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Could a Parenting Plan Help Your Child?
One of the most difficult discussions parents have when they separate is about what happens to the children.
It is natural for this conversation to focus on where they will live and when they will have contact with each parent. It is not easy to know what else to discuss and how to approach it.
Preparing a Parenting Plan will help you consider the entirety of arrangements for your child and how you will work together to parent them moving forward.
By considering situations before they occur, you can provide more certainty and a more positive environment for your child.
It is natural for this conversation to focus on where they will live and when they will have contact with each parent. It is not easy to know what else to discuss and how to approach it.
Preparing a Parenting Plan will help you consider the entirety of arrangements for your child and how you will work together to parent them moving forward.
By considering situations before they occur, you can provide more certainty and a more positive environment for your child.
INSIGHT|November 29, 2021
Five Steps to Keep Your Child’s Needs at the Forefront of Separation
Separations are often referred to as an emotional roller-coaster because of the intense highs and lows and it can be easy to lose sight of children within this myriad of emotions.
How parents behave during a divorce or separation will have an impact on the happiness, health and wellbeing of their children.
To minimise the negative effects, it is important to bear this in mind from the outset and set a tone for the separation that keeps your child’s needs at the forefront.
We have prepared five practical steps that can be taken to ensure your child’s needs come first and that a strong foundation is laid for a positive co-parenting relationship.
How parents behave during a divorce or separation will have an impact on the happiness, health and wellbeing of their children.
To minimise the negative effects, it is important to bear this in mind from the outset and set a tone for the separation that keeps your child’s needs at the forefront.
We have prepared five practical steps that can be taken to ensure your child’s needs come first and that a strong foundation is laid for a positive co-parenting relationship.
INSIGHT|September 29, 2021
How do I know if our Prenuptial Agreement is Fair?
A Prenuptial Agreement (prenup) might not seem romantic, but many couples find the process of preparing one to be a bonding experience, ensuring they enter their union with openness and honesty.
A Prenuptial Agreement allows couples to have a degree of self-regulation over their affairs and set out from the outset what will happen if they separate.
It is not about trying to make sure your new spouse does not get anything, but allows couples the opportunity to decide what would be fair for themselves. Most people find it easier to do this when they are experiencing the best of times.
A Prenuptial Agreement allows couples to have a degree of self-regulation over their affairs and set out from the outset what will happen if they separate.
It is not about trying to make sure your new spouse does not get anything, but allows couples the opportunity to decide what would be fair for themselves. Most people find it easier to do this when they are experiencing the best of times.
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